Five Signs That You Got the Love Bug

 So many people all over the planet constantly search for love. But, what is love, exactly? How can you tell that love happens? Or more importantly, how do you identify if you’re actually feeling that way for someone? These are just some of the questions any individual would ask themselves if they happen to think they’ve been struck by cupid’s arrow. Of course, this topic can be somewhat broad and even complicated to some extent, especially when you put into consideration just how tremendous of a change it can bear on someone’s life, emotionally and physically speaking. In layman’s terms, it is defined as feeling a rather strong attachment or desire for someone. There is also a rather huge difference between the affection we have for an object or possession from the feelings we have for a person, although it can be considered the same in some cases.

If you happen to be in a relationship with someone, regardless of how long you have been with each other, you know deep inside there was a time when you felt so strongly towards that person. However, how can you determine if it really is love or just some form of infatuation? Below are five indicators of what you’re feeling may turn out to be something more than just a crush:

1. You are truly committed to riding along with your partner through all the highs and lows. If it was just an admiration, a crush or something geared towards lust, you wouldn’t tolerate so much of the fact that he or she is a career-oriented individual.

2. You have this strange fondness for the person, regardless of their flaws and shortcomings. You don’t really care if they aren’t tidy and tend to procrastinate a whole lot, since you would be willing to clean up their mess for them and constantly tell that someone to be more responsible. Call it nagging, but that’s something sincere and earnest.

3. You once thought the person you were previously in a relationship with was the one, but here comes this totally different individual whom you constantly think about. You no longer care for your previous partner.

4. You’re not that minding of other people, whether it’s the same sex or the opposite. You may see someone that others would find attractive and physically appealing, but you don’t even pay much attention to that person since you yourself think that the one you’re with is better looking and you can’t imagine yourself being with anyone else but him/her.

5. You can come to a compromise on many things. There will be some changes that need to be made in your life, and you’re totally okay with it, just so everything will run much more smoothly. Compromise is something difficult to achieve between couples, so if you can manage to do this, then you’re in love!

Is She Losing Interest In You?

Many a times people are so blindly in love that they just don’t seem to notice that their partner may not be enjoying the relationship as they are. There is no fire without smoke. So if there is something wrong in your relationship, your partner will surely send signals to you. Truly, understanding a woman is no child’s play. Therefore take help of some signs that let you know if she is losing interest in you.

1. Avoids meeting you:

Does she give silly excuses not to meet you? Of late, has she not been returning your calls or mails? Does she try her best to stay away from you? If you answered yes to any of the above questions, there is a possibility that you are not so special to her any more.

2. Chooses others over you all the time:

When she is losing interest in you, spending time with you won’t excite her anymore. She would rather choose something else. If you feel that all of a sudden she keeps choosing other things or other people over you, it is a sign that there is trouble in paradise.

3. Sudden unexplainable change in behavior:

If all of a sudden, her love for you looks more like pity than love or when you are with her it feels as if you are with a complete stranger, then there is something you need to talk to her about.

4. Gets irritated about everything you do:

It is quite possible that she doesn’t feel love for you anymore. So in order to hide her own guilt, she tries to find faults with you. That will give her a point when she wants to break up.

5. Avoids intimacy of any sort:

Not wanting to meet you alone, pushing you away when you try to get close to her, not sharing personal secrets with you anymore, avoiding holding your hand in public and so on, are signs that she doesn’t feel comfortable with you anymore.

6. Cheats on you:

The main reason why she would cheat on you would be because she is losing interest in you. This is why she wanted to find solace in the arms of another man. If you feel that she frequently cheats you, then it is time to say good bye.

7. Not talking about future with you:

When a girl is losing interest in you and she is considering ending the relationship, she will avoid talking about your future together. The reason being, she may find it totally pointless talking about something that is not going to happen.

8. Talking about friendship after love:

If she has plans to break up with you soon, she may start talking to you about the positivity of a break up. She may do this to prepare you for what’s coming next.

9. She looks uncomfortable to disclose your relationship to people:

She avoids referring you as her boyfriend to new people. Instead she may introduce you as a friend. She may also avoid acknowledging that you are her boyfriend in public.

10. Planning outings without you:

When a girl is trying to get some space from you, she may resort to planning outings with her other friends without you. This shows that she enjoys life more with others rather than you.

All relationships go through a rough patch. There are times when even the strongest of all relationships lose the spark. Hence, it is necessary to work hard and keep the spark alive. If your relationship is going through a bad phase, you should not lose hope. You should try all that it takes to make it work. Speak to your partner. However if it still doesn’t work out, it is better to let go of things. It may seem hard at first but always remember, ‘whatever happens, happens for the best’.

5 Things Men love About Women

1. Don’t be Afraid to Lose the Make- Up:

Ladies be aware that you don’t need make up for a guy to think you’re beautiful. It is actually a turn off when a girl wears too much makeup. The reason is that guys enjoy natural beauty better then a face full of foundation. Not wearing make up in front of your man and in public show guys that you a confident, beautiful women. And that’s something that guys look for. Remember a guy is in his basic instinct is looking for a mate. And who wants a women who is overly self conscious and full of make up all the time.

2. Great Cook:

This isn’t meant to say that all women should be good at cooking. But if you can cook your man his favorite food he will never go anywhere else. A girl who is a good cook has a great tool at her disposal. Nothing is better then using this tool to you advantage. Set up a special night every week were you cook for your man. Make sure to make it romantic with table setting and ambiance. Make this a weekly occurrence and even get him evolved in the kitchen as your sue Chief.

3. Amazing Driver

I know this seems very insignificant, but to any man a woman who is a great driver is a turn on. I’m not advising you to get your license taken away by the Police. I’m just saying that a girl who is a confident driver will turn a guy on. It’s a confidence thing, and even though some men may act as if they have enough confidence for the two of you. If you not confident in every day actions, he will get cocky. So tear up a race track or just become a better driver. A big added bonus is a girl who can drive a stick shift car. Nothing beats that.

4. She Shows her Shoulders and her Neck:

Always remember to try to show skin, but not in the wrong areas. The most attractive skin to show is your neck and shoulders. Exposing your shoulders and upper chest with a tasteful tank top makes your man want more. Showing skin on your upper body is a tasteful and hot way to tell your man your want him to think of you naked.

5. That Look!:

A quick and easy way to get a man to stop in his tracks is to give him that look. The look I’m talking about is that quick flirty, suggestive look. It is a perfect way to freeze an image of you face into any man. If you don’t think you look is up to standards practice on your girlfriends or a close male friend. If this technique is mastered there is no stopping you.

9 Secrets to a Successful Marriage

1. Have Secrets 
One of the chief tenants of Krasnow’s book is that every marriage is entitled to a healthy amount of secrecy. This does not apply to harmful activities — bank robbery or adultery, for instance, but rather to the “secrets of your soul that aren’t hurting anyone else.” Krasnow writes, “no one knows what’s really going on in a marriage except the two people in it. That gives each of us the freedom to write our own rules and keep our own secrets.”

2. A Marriage Should Run on Multiple Tracks 
Marital success is not, Krasnow asserts, about depending on someone else. Instead, each spouse should allow for self-growth, whether in a career, through special hobbies, or pursuing fun with a great group of pals. “When you go out with your friends or your work is pumping you, you are pumping your self esteem and your sense of accomplishment,” Krasnow explains. “When partners are each growing on their own, they have a better shot at growing for a longer time.” So go ahead, seek your adventures or hang with the girls and leave your husband at home. It’s good for both of you!


3. Act Like a Kid Again 
Remember that journal you kept as a teen because you loved to write? Maybe you plucked a violin in your school orchestra, or played midfield on a club lacrosse team. As kids and young adults, it may have been easier to chase your bliss simply because you had more time. But rediscovering an interest from your youth in your married life can build more confidence, both in yourself and in your relationship, according to Krasnow. “When you resurrect a childhood passion that is yours alone,” she explains, “you feel worthy. Everyone needs to feel like they’re worthy.” Greater self-worth leads to greater happiness, and, Krasnow explains, the happiness that you build for yourself is crucial to a wedded couple. “Stop expecting someone else to make you happy; that’s a real formula for success of marriage,” she says.


4. Keep Your Friends Close 
It’s terrific if you count your husband as your best friend — just make sure you make room for some best girlfriends too. Krasnow’s research affirms that the women with the highest marital satisfaction stay connected to a group of gals who spice up their social life, provide great laughs, and offer support for whatever unfolds in their marriages — the peaks and the valleys. Krasnow writes, “Our girlfriends, ever-forgiving and always empathetic, provide the escape hatch from the inevitable storms and challenges that comes with long marriages.”


5. Spend Time Apart 
Who says girls’ night out has to just last an evening? If your idea of relaxation is a trip to the spa and not a day on the golf course with your hubby, Krasnow recommends the occasional vacation apart. Taking a separate week or even a separate summer can reinvigorate your marriage: “After some weeks apart from each other, removed from the grind of ordinary life, marriage seems way hotter than the tepid state in which you left each other in.” Ooo la la!


6. Lower Expectations 
Happily-ever-after doesn’t mean happy all the time, and it’s important for you and your spouse to be realistic about the bumps along the married road. That is why it is imperative that women be zealous about forging their own sense of purpose; writes Krasner, “marital bliss is possible if each partner is blissful without the other.” 


7. Be Grateful 
Practicing gratitude can go a long way in a marriage, whether it’s thanking your husband for taking out the trash, or making time for him because he has given you the ability to have a life outside of your relationship. “Gratitude is a powerful feeler,” explains Krasnow. “A lot of us need to stop and just say, ‘thank you. I know you’re not perfect and I am not perfect, but thank you for sticking it out.’” 


8. Reslience Matters 
Bearing a grudge does not make for a harmonious relationship. In fact, says Krasnow, “the ability to bounce back from strife and arguments is the real secret that makes marriages last forever.” 


9. Honor each other, LOVE UNCONDITIONAL NEVER EXPECT NOTHING BACK.






note: i guess this is really useful to all of us... =)

WHICH TREE ARE YOU?????



Imma Lime Tree... ^_^



All that some Women want....

That's all some Women want......



...Plain looking husband





...normal simple ring



...small wedding party




...honeymoon at any place




...small house for the kids to run around




...lovely children




...husband is a family man





...but work hard



...small car for shopping




...another car for kids




...some collections




...shoes for each occasion









...some nice outfits



...a bit of cosmetics






...a bit of makeup



...overseas trip once a year



...more often on domestic trips




...dinners




... Presents occasionally



...finally, some securities.



That's it... WOMEN ARE NOT DEMANDING AT ALL!!!!!


^_^ MDA.....

Reminder : BE CAREFUL WHEN TRAVELLING!!!

Please read the last article, it happened in JB!

BE CAREFUL WHEN TRAVELLING - China / Bangkok / Malaysia

Better to prevent. Be very careful. The scammers are getting more and more daring!

They want your money! Credit card scam upon check in at hotel

You arrive at your hotel and check in at the front desk. When checking

in, you give the front desk your credit card (for all the charges for

your room). You get to your room and settle in. Someone calls the front desk and asked for (example) Room 620 (which happens to be your room).

Your phone rings in your room. You answer and the person on the other end says the following, 'This is the front desk. When checking in, we came across a problem with your charge card information. Please re-read me your credit card number and verify the last 3 digits numbers at the reverse side of your charge card.

Not thinking anything you might give this person your information, since the call seems to come from the front desk. But actually, it is a scam of someone calling from outside the hotel/front desk. They ask for a random room number. Then, ask you for credit card information and address information. Sounding so professional that you do think you are talking to the front desk.

If you ever encounter this problem on your vacation, tell the caller that you will be down at the front desk to clear up any problems. Then, go to the front desk and ask if there was a problem. If there was none, inform the manager of the hotel that someone called to scam you of your credit card information acting like a front desk employee.

If you feel that the tips are useful, please forward it to your relatives, friends & colleague.

Danger: Bangkok International Airport

Folks, be warned and be really careful, check the items you bought and give back what does not belong to you even when the shop assistants claimed it's 'free'. I believe the duty free shop assistants would also get a share........so, be very, very careful. Read below

My Dept. secretary informed on this. Her cousin was detained in Bangkok for stealing a box of cigarettes in a duty-free shop in Bangkok International Airport .

He had paid for chocolates and a carton of cigarettes. The cashier put a packet of smokes into his bag and he thought it was a free pack.

He was arrested for shop-lifting and the Thai Police extortion price was equivalent to RM30, 000 for his release. He spent two nights in jail and paid RM50 for an air-con cell, 200-300 baht for each visitor, and RM11,000 for his final release.

The Police shared the money in front of his eyes. On top of that, he was charged in court and fined RM2,000 by the magistrate and handcuffed and escorted to his plane.

His passport was stamped "Thief". While there, his relatives requested help from the Malaysian Embassy and was told that they are helpless, as Malaysians are victimised similarly daily and letters and phone-calls to the Thai Authorities are ignored. He shared a cell with a Singaporean the 1st night who paid RM60,000 for his release.The 2nd night was an Indian national who paid USD70,000. Mind you this is not in a shag downtown Bangkok but in a duty free shop in Bangkok 's Int'l Airport.

Please share this experience with all your friends.

Drug on Money! Driving to JB

If you get RM 10.00 in your car door handle, use tissue paper or cloth to remove it without opening it and if possible bag it. Drive away immediately. Don't check the note until you are in the company of your friends or relatives. The note could either contain powdered drugs to knock you out or make you wonder if some guilty motorists compensating you for a knock or scratch on your car, while you are still wondering, the robber(s) will attack you as you check the car.

This had happened in Johor. Please circulate to your friends and warn them!

-be careful guys-

CONTOH SURAT PERMOHONAN UTK BERPOLIGAMI!!

Suami bin Lelaki
17, Jalan Angkasa ,
24300, Kemaman
Terengganu ..


Isteri binti Perempuan
17, Jalan Angkasa ,
24300, Kemaman
Terengganu .

31 April 2006

Puan,

PERKARA : PERMOHONAN UNTUK BERPOLIGAMI

Perkara di atas adalah di rujuk.

2. Sebab utama permohonan ini di lakukan adalah kerana saya ingin melengkapkan kuota yang telah di peruntukkan bagi saya . Buat masa ini kuota yang telah di isi cuma satu , memandangkan masih ada 3 kekosongan , eloklah jika dapat dipenuhi secepat mung kin . Pihak yang akan mengisi satu kekosongan ini buat masa ini ialah Cik Hana Fazura binti Ramli yang merupakan setiausaha saya di pejabat . Memandangkan komitmen yang beliau tunjukkan di pejabat amat baik , eloklah jika kita masukkan dia bersama kita di dalam organisasi keluarga kita . Kekosongan yang selebihnya akan diisi di masa akan datang.

3. Untuk makluman pihak puan , yang sebenarnya masalah ini telah lama saya fikirkan tetapi memandangkan poket saya yang selalu nipis , terpaksalah saya tangguhkan dulu permohonan ini di samping kurangnye rasa keyakin an untuk mengemukakan permohonan ini . Kini, setelah saya dapat mengeluarkan kesemua duit pelaburan ASB saya , saya merasakan kembalinya semangat saya yang telah hilang selama ini.

4. Permohonan ini amat setimpal kerana dengan kedudukan sekarang ia menguntungkan kedua belah pihak dan juga pihak ketiga . Selama ini hidup kita bahagia sebab jika tidak , manakan mung kin puan dapat menjadi seperti sekarang . Semua yang puan miliki sudah bertambah besar. Kereta besar , rumah besar , rantai besar dan pakaian besar . Jika dulu potongan puan seperti gitar, kini sudah bertukar menjadi drum. Oleh itu, sudilah kiranya dapat kita kongsi bersama insan lain kebahagiaan kita ini.

5. Pihak puan juga dapat menikmati faedah dari kelulusan permohonan ini kerana puan akan tetap menikmati apa yang telah puan miliki sekarang dengan waktu bekerja lebih singkat dan sistem syif akan di perkenalkan iaitu 1 hari kerja dan 1 hari cuti rehat . Waktu bekerja yang selebihnya akan ditampung oleh pihak ketiga. Kebaikan yang puan akan nikmati ialah waktu rehat yang bebas kerana dalam waktu puan bercuti, saya selaku Penyelia tidak akan memantau aktiviti yang puan lakukan . Pada waktu itu saya cuma akan fokus kepada hasil kerja pihak ketiga . Menguntungkan bukan?


6. Segala kerjasama dari pihak puan saya dahulukan dengan ribuan terima kasih. Saya amat berharap pihak puan dapat meluluskan permohonan saya ini kerana adalah lebih baik jika kita dapat berkongsi kebahagiaan kita ini bersama insan lain. Saya harap permohonan saya ini di balas dengan senyuman penuh keikhlasan dari pihak puan dan tandatangan puan di atas kertas yang saya lampirkan bukannya balingan periuk nasi , pinggan-mangkuk , ketukan senduk dan perkara-perkara yang menyukarkan pihak puan untuk melakukannya.

7. Saya harap puan sudi meluluskan permohonan ini . Hadirkanlah senyumanmu sebagaimana ketika kita menyambut orang baru iaitu bayi kita kedalam keluarga kita 10 tahun lepas ….. Situasinya lebih kurang sama dengan masa kini . Kita akan menerima orang baru juga cuma bezanya ialah jika 10 tahun yang lepas kita perlu menjaga dan membelainya dengan manja bersama tetapi kali ini, setiap urusan penjagaan dan belaian manja akan di laksanakan oleh saya sepenuhnya.

8. Akhir kata , saya harap permohonan saya ini dapat dibalas secepat mungkin. Semoga kita bersama-bersama dengan pihak ketiga akan dapat melaksanakan program ini dengan jayanya.

Sekian , Terima Kasih.

“BERKORBAN DAN BERKONGSI KEBAHAGIAAN LAMBANG RUMAHTANGGA BAHAGIA”



Yang Ikhlas Memohon ,
Suami bin Lelaki


-kakakakakakakakakakkakakakakakka!!!!!!.....

The NEW iPhone 5 - Coming July 2011

The iPhone 5 built for 4G is COMING!!!




Lots of speculation is going around on the new iPhone 5... in HD!!

Verizon Wireless is currently testing a CDMA version of the iPhone 4 and 5 and Verizon confirms they are making network changes to bring the iphone to their network. The new iPhone 5 is going to be loaded with awesome new features like video chat on 3g and 4g (no longer restricted to WiFi only), face recognition and extreme downloading. (List of possible features below). Just when you think there is nothing else to come up with, more and more and more technology comes out. And it is on the rise, and not just at Apple, Inc!

This iPhone 5 will have dual core processors and higher and powerful graphic chips that can deliver higher video resolutions and better "still" images when taking pictures, AND it will make multi-tasking a breeze.

There are a few networks working on building a 4G network. T-mobile would be a likely carrier since they are GSM already. Sprint has a 4G network already... AT&T and Verizon Wireless are in the beginning stages. There are talks of Verizon Wireless getting iPhone sometime in 2010 but it looks like they will get it for sure in 2011 when the new iPhone 5 comes out.

Whether or not it will be 4G will be up to them!... can they build in time? They will definitely have the 3G version of iPhone, but with the new iPhone 5 (4g speeds) coming out, will they compete?! Regardless, there is much anticipation on how many people will leave AT&T for Verizon Wireless because of AT&T's lagging on app restrictions like Slingplayer and Google Voice and Skype (on 4g network, not Wi-Fi).

AT&T's restrictions have caused the percentage of people that are JailBreaking their iPhones to rise since Jail Breaking usually comes with Cydia which is the app store for jail broken phones. Most of the applications, ringtones, and even iphone themes!...are free with Cydia. Winterboard is part of the download, and it very easily add's the changes to your phone so you dont have to figure how to do it on your own...it is VERY automated.

The Palm Pre on Sprint and HTC EVO (Sprint now offering a 4G network) has made an attempt at being competitive with iPhone and Blackberry...and it seems they are making head way, although with the iPhone 4 released and the iPhone 5 on the way, they are sure to lose. Oh ya, the Blackberry Torch? = Nice try... but that browser is NOT full HTML.

iPhone 5 looks promising in terms of being sleek, packed with new hardware and finally less restrictions. Very exciting.

A few features of iPhone 5:

Thinner! With shiny glass back piece - 9.3 mm thick.

Face Recognition Security

Face Time (Video Chat) access on 3G AND 4G (available currently but only on 3G)

Custom SMS tones

Custom E-mail alerts with ability to assign different tones to each email address

A new, sleeker body design.

OLED screen.

Scratch proof and shatter proof screen

Wireless sync with iTunes

32G (basic) and 64G of memory. You're sure to never run out.

Extended battery life = 14 hours talk time on 3G and 7 hours on 4G. Standby 600 hours.

Hi Definition audio.

Messaging indicator light.

True GPS built in.

Who's network do you want to see the new iPhone 5 on??? Should Apple stay with AT&T? See what others are saying below.

iPhone 5 photo not yet available..


(Note: added by Google)

iPhone 5: What features will it have?

You may be thinking? iPhone 5? But didn't the iPhone 4 just come out?

(Images for Iphone 5)

This is Apple. They will release a new version of their product every year if they think it will sell. So what kind of features can we expect in a theoretical iPhone 5?

Here are a few things that I would like to see:

Improved Antenna

Anyone who remembers the launch of the iPhone 4 will remember th antenna issue and that is one of the first things that Apple should try to fix.

1080p HDMI Output

I know Apple likes to use its own connections (which just makes things difficult for the consumer) but they need to step up and allow the iPhone 5 to output in full HD mode. It is essential for a high end multimedia device.

Improved Battery Life

This is something that can be expected but more is always better. The iPhone is made to use all the time for everything so a new battery needs to hold up to a lot of heavy use.

4G Network

The AT&T 3G network is getting pretty bogged down these days, especially in larger cities. The iPhone 5 will be sure to take advantage of the new 4G network AT&T is working on.

Flash Support

Just me dreaming. Apple isn't getting friendly with Adobe anytime soon.



Note: (original thought by Jeremy.)