FAKE IT: Imagine you're an actress playing a sharp, professional career woman in a film then get into character. Walk tall, lower your voice and speak with authority and inject a little more jargon into your work-speak.
Avoid Saying "I Can't": No matter what your boss throws at you , rise to the challenge. If you've never done that Job before, find out who has and get some pointers.
Ask Questions: Say "I just want to clarify this to make sure we're on the same page" then find out what you need to know. That way you continue what you're doing with self-assurance and when the job's done there won't be mistakes.
Make friends: Make an effort to find out a little personal info about everyone from the reception staff and co-workers to your boss. Then follow up by asking them how that weekend away/dental appointment/hot date went. They will appreciate your interest and you will feel popular and liked.
Steer clear of bitching: People who are negative tend to bring you down and if you hang out with them you may say something you regret or worry that they're bitching about you the minute you leave the tearoom. Instead, be friendly and say hello, but don't weigh in on any of their discussions.
Forgive your mistakes: Remind yourself that making mistakes is all part of your career learning curve and will only make you better at what you do in the long run.
Woman tips: BOOST YOUR CONFIDENCE AT WORK
POWER OF FAILURE
When it comes down to it, there is no wrong answer to the question because many people have experienced success differently from one another. One answer I do know is it truly comes down to only you and believing in yourself to succeed in life.
Some of us use religion as a reminder to ourselves not to give up. In order for us to know how to succeed in life, we need to understand how God evaluate success in life. Knowledge is acquiring information and facts. we can say wisdom is knowing how to properly apply it for yourself and understand one's life situations.
People need to understand that acknowledging any type of failure leads to success because we can use that type of failure leads to success because we can use that information to learn from. It isn't the end of the world if you fail and it's how you bounce back that counts at the end. When this happens, some of us become a stronger person by building your character and appreciating how you got to that point. People need to learn and that it is frequently s stepping stone to eventual success.
To succeed in life, you have to get past the failure or the so called bad experience. you have to look at things in perspective such as what you learnt from it and how you got back on track to achieve the success you want in life. Once you reach this stage in your life, you are ready to take ACTION!
Every minute that you dwell on the past is a minute you are not spending on moving forward. what makes a successful person is not the failures or set-backs experienced but how you picked yourself up and moved ahead despite them.
One thing i like to remember from time to time when I doubt myself is that key word "perseverance". For me, its means to keep going even when failure seems uncertain. we need to begin the journey of life and learn the importance of not giving up when faced with a challenge. There is no easy way out in life; we may by-pass the valuable lessons learned from failure and persistence.
People who have risen to the top are usually the ones who have learned that perseverance through failure is part of the price of success. i believe god gives us obstacles in life and it's how we overcome these barriers that gives us purpose and goals in life.
On a positive note, a quote comes to mind, which is from Franklin D. Roosevelt.
"When you come to the end of your rope, tie a knot and hang on.."
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