Five Signs That You Got the Love Bug

 So many people all over the planet constantly search for love. But, what is love, exactly? How can you tell that love happens? Or more importantly, how do you identify if you’re actually feeling that way for someone? These are just some of the questions any individual would ask themselves if they happen to think they’ve been struck by cupid’s arrow. Of course, this topic can be somewhat broad and even complicated to some extent, especially when you put into consideration just how tremendous of a change it can bear on someone’s life, emotionally and physically speaking. In layman’s terms, it is defined as feeling a rather strong attachment or desire for someone. There is also a rather huge difference between the affection we have for an object or possession from the feelings we have for a person, although it can be considered the same in some cases.

If you happen to be in a relationship with someone, regardless of how long you have been with each other, you know deep inside there was a time when you felt so strongly towards that person. However, how can you determine if it really is love or just some form of infatuation? Below are five indicators of what you’re feeling may turn out to be something more than just a crush:

1. You are truly committed to riding along with your partner through all the highs and lows. If it was just an admiration, a crush or something geared towards lust, you wouldn’t tolerate so much of the fact that he or she is a career-oriented individual.

2. You have this strange fondness for the person, regardless of their flaws and shortcomings. You don’t really care if they aren’t tidy and tend to procrastinate a whole lot, since you would be willing to clean up their mess for them and constantly tell that someone to be more responsible. Call it nagging, but that’s something sincere and earnest.

3. You once thought the person you were previously in a relationship with was the one, but here comes this totally different individual whom you constantly think about. You no longer care for your previous partner.

4. You’re not that minding of other people, whether it’s the same sex or the opposite. You may see someone that others would find attractive and physically appealing, but you don’t even pay much attention to that person since you yourself think that the one you’re with is better looking and you can’t imagine yourself being with anyone else but him/her.

5. You can come to a compromise on many things. There will be some changes that need to be made in your life, and you’re totally okay with it, just so everything will run much more smoothly. Compromise is something difficult to achieve between couples, so if you can manage to do this, then you’re in love!

Is She Losing Interest In You?

Many a times people are so blindly in love that they just don’t seem to notice that their partner may not be enjoying the relationship as they are. There is no fire without smoke. So if there is something wrong in your relationship, your partner will surely send signals to you. Truly, understanding a woman is no child’s play. Therefore take help of some signs that let you know if she is losing interest in you.

1. Avoids meeting you:

Does she give silly excuses not to meet you? Of late, has she not been returning your calls or mails? Does she try her best to stay away from you? If you answered yes to any of the above questions, there is a possibility that you are not so special to her any more.

2. Chooses others over you all the time:

When she is losing interest in you, spending time with you won’t excite her anymore. She would rather choose something else. If you feel that all of a sudden she keeps choosing other things or other people over you, it is a sign that there is trouble in paradise.

3. Sudden unexplainable change in behavior:

If all of a sudden, her love for you looks more like pity than love or when you are with her it feels as if you are with a complete stranger, then there is something you need to talk to her about.

4. Gets irritated about everything you do:

It is quite possible that she doesn’t feel love for you anymore. So in order to hide her own guilt, she tries to find faults with you. That will give her a point when she wants to break up.

5. Avoids intimacy of any sort:

Not wanting to meet you alone, pushing you away when you try to get close to her, not sharing personal secrets with you anymore, avoiding holding your hand in public and so on, are signs that she doesn’t feel comfortable with you anymore.

6. Cheats on you:

The main reason why she would cheat on you would be because she is losing interest in you. This is why she wanted to find solace in the arms of another man. If you feel that she frequently cheats you, then it is time to say good bye.

7. Not talking about future with you:

When a girl is losing interest in you and she is considering ending the relationship, she will avoid talking about your future together. The reason being, she may find it totally pointless talking about something that is not going to happen.

8. Talking about friendship after love:

If she has plans to break up with you soon, she may start talking to you about the positivity of a break up. She may do this to prepare you for what’s coming next.

9. She looks uncomfortable to disclose your relationship to people:

She avoids referring you as her boyfriend to new people. Instead she may introduce you as a friend. She may also avoid acknowledging that you are her boyfriend in public.

10. Planning outings without you:

When a girl is trying to get some space from you, she may resort to planning outings with her other friends without you. This shows that she enjoys life more with others rather than you.

All relationships go through a rough patch. There are times when even the strongest of all relationships lose the spark. Hence, it is necessary to work hard and keep the spark alive. If your relationship is going through a bad phase, you should not lose hope. You should try all that it takes to make it work. Speak to your partner. However if it still doesn’t work out, it is better to let go of things. It may seem hard at first but always remember, ‘whatever happens, happens for the best’.

5 Things Men love About Women

1. Don’t be Afraid to Lose the Make- Up:

Ladies be aware that you don’t need make up for a guy to think you’re beautiful. It is actually a turn off when a girl wears too much makeup. The reason is that guys enjoy natural beauty better then a face full of foundation. Not wearing make up in front of your man and in public show guys that you a confident, beautiful women. And that’s something that guys look for. Remember a guy is in his basic instinct is looking for a mate. And who wants a women who is overly self conscious and full of make up all the time.

2. Great Cook:

This isn’t meant to say that all women should be good at cooking. But if you can cook your man his favorite food he will never go anywhere else. A girl who is a good cook has a great tool at her disposal. Nothing is better then using this tool to you advantage. Set up a special night every week were you cook for your man. Make sure to make it romantic with table setting and ambiance. Make this a weekly occurrence and even get him evolved in the kitchen as your sue Chief.

3. Amazing Driver

I know this seems very insignificant, but to any man a woman who is a great driver is a turn on. I’m not advising you to get your license taken away by the Police. I’m just saying that a girl who is a confident driver will turn a guy on. It’s a confidence thing, and even though some men may act as if they have enough confidence for the two of you. If you not confident in every day actions, he will get cocky. So tear up a race track or just become a better driver. A big added bonus is a girl who can drive a stick shift car. Nothing beats that.

4. She Shows her Shoulders and her Neck:

Always remember to try to show skin, but not in the wrong areas. The most attractive skin to show is your neck and shoulders. Exposing your shoulders and upper chest with a tasteful tank top makes your man want more. Showing skin on your upper body is a tasteful and hot way to tell your man your want him to think of you naked.

5. That Look!:

A quick and easy way to get a man to stop in his tracks is to give him that look. The look I’m talking about is that quick flirty, suggestive look. It is a perfect way to freeze an image of you face into any man. If you don’t think you look is up to standards practice on your girlfriends or a close male friend. If this technique is mastered there is no stopping you.